I’ve Been Quiet | Ella’s Updates


It has probably been glaringly obvious but I have been a little off the radar at the moment with my blog. I have still been posting 3 times a week but I have not been dedicating the time that I usually do to be as active as possible.

This is predominately down to two reasons. I don’t want to use them as excuses at all but you know I am always up front and honest with you guys.

  1. Home has been very hard recently. This is actually the one thing I keep private and don’t discuss on my blog as it is pretty sensitive information and could really affect people around me. I am between home and my boyfriend’s house at the moment which is all I will divulge and this instability has made things quite difficult.
  2. I have been working a huge amount for someone who is a student, originally on a part time contract. I have been doing long hours over sale and now my store is closing and moving over to a new one is equally as tiring but massively exciting!

I am so sorry I haven’t been active and nothing I say will excuse the fact that I haven’t been engaging as much as I should. Thank you so much for supporting me no matter what, it means the world.

I am away from the 4th-7th and 9th to 11th in Centerparcs and Prague but I assure you I will be back to normal ol me soon!

All my love,




  1. August 2, 2017 / 8:46 pm

    I hope you have a great time on your holidays! Take your time coming back, only come back when you’re ready!xo

    • August 2, 2017 / 10:34 pm

      Thank you so much darling, you’re the best xx

  2. August 2, 2017 / 9:19 pm

    Aww Ella. These aren’t excuses at all, sometimes it’s just life. Things happen, and you just roll with them, and hopefully land back on your feet. Take care in Prague (and in general really 😀 ), and we’ll see you when we see you 🙂

    • August 2, 2017 / 10:35 pm

      Thank you so much darling – you’re amazing! Your support means the world xxx

  3. August 2, 2017 / 9:54 pm

    I really hope things start looking brighter soon! Forget about blogging for awhile, and focus on yourself sweetie! xx

    • August 2, 2017 / 10:36 pm

      Thank you so much for understanding and being so supportive, I love you all so much! xx

  4. August 2, 2017 / 9:57 pm

    Take time for yourself and don’t apologize to anyone for it. There is a real world we all live in outside the blogging world and social media… take care of yourself. xo

    • August 2, 2017 / 10:36 pm

      This comment means so much to me – thank you so much for understanding xxx

  5. August 2, 2017 / 11:56 pm

    I hope things improve and settle down for you on the home / work front!
    Enjoy your upcoming trips. 🙂

  6. August 3, 2017 / 5:03 am

    I’m sorry things are tough at home, and respect how you’ve kept all of it so private. I’m always here if you ever want to chat, just drop me an email. You work very hard and should be proud of yourself, but I certainly wouldn’t worry about apologising here, especially as no one considers such reasons to be ‘excuses’ for not blogging/interacting as much lately. You do whatever you need to do. Most importantly, I really hope things are okay and that you have wonderful break(s) away to Centreparcs/Prague, you deserve an awesome time and some space to relax and enjoy yourself! Sending hugs your way…xx
    Caz 🙂

    • August 3, 2017 / 10:39 pm

      Thank you so much, your comments always make my day Elena xxxx

  7. August 3, 2017 / 11:11 am

    Take care of yourself first! That’s more important

    • August 3, 2017 / 10:38 pm

      Thank you so so much for understanding xxxxx

  8. August 3, 2017 / 11:25 am

    I hope you have a great time on your holiday! And I hope life gets a bit easier for you soon❤ Have a nice break, relax, and we’ll be here once you’re ready to return! Xxx

    • August 3, 2017 / 10:40 pm

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate and love you all so much for being so understanding xxx

  9. August 3, 2017 / 11:28 am

    Take your time, we will still be here when you return! Hope your home situation improves <3 I always feel I say the wrong thing but just know we're here for you *hugs* x

    • August 3, 2017 / 10:40 pm

      No no you said exactly the right things! Lots of love xxxx

  10. August 3, 2017 / 2:11 pm

    Keep up the hard work, don’t feel pressured or rushed. You are doing amazing and don’t worry if you feel the need to take a break.

    • August 3, 2017 / 10:40 pm

      Thank you so much, I just worry that I will let everyone down! xxx

  11. August 3, 2017 / 2:44 pm

    Ella take as much time for yourself as you need!! Nobody will judge you and your readers will still be here! Enjoy your holidays, have a fab time and we will see you when you return xx

    • August 3, 2017 / 10:41 pm

      You’re the best, this comment means so much to me!! xxxx

  12. August 3, 2017 / 7:08 pm

    Ok, please know that you do not have to apologise for being inactive or anything like that – we’re here no matter what, and it’s important to take time out and to look after yourself – it’s self love & self care. Sometimes life takes over a little. Feel better, and have a bloody amazing couple holidays. <3 x x

    • August 3, 2017 / 7:48 pm

      Thank you so much for understanding and being so kind as always darling! It means the world to have your support xx

  13. August 3, 2017 / 8:36 pm

    Sending my love to you and hoping things start to get better soon!

    • August 3, 2017 / 10:41 pm

      Thank you so much darling, lots of love xxxx

  14. August 4, 2017 / 8:48 am

    Ella, take good care of yourself. That is the most important thing. Your followers will still be there even if you take some time off. I know I will. Soon things will get better in your life and you will feel ready to blog again. Best.

    • August 5, 2017 / 3:13 pm

      You’re so kind! Those words are exactly what I needed to hear so I totally appreciate it, thank you so much x

  15. August 5, 2017 / 4:49 am

    Take time for yourself. A person can only do so much. A blogger can blog, but it does take a lot of time to also be devoted to the community as well. No one has to be on top of things all the time, that’s okay : )

    • August 5, 2017 / 3:17 pm

      I really like your comment that a blogger can blog but that doesn’t even include all the other bits that come with being in the community – I just don’t want to let everyone down! Thank you so much for understanding xxx

      • August 5, 2017 / 5:03 pm

        I think for the bloggers who also work on staying consistent to the community, they totally understand. And I believe those who are also loyal readers will understand. 🙂 Peace be with you.

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